Never Stop Learning

Today I want to chat about a subject that is close to my heart, lifelong learning. Whether it's related to my career or strictly a hobby, I feel like trying new things is one of the biggest inspiration sources in my life. Learning new things makes me feel alive. Recently while Jeremy and I were working on this project, I paused and said to him, "See! This is the kind of stuff that makes me the kind of person I want to be!" 

Last year I read The Martha Rules, Martha Stewart's book of business advice (highly recommend). One of the points I took away from it was about lifelong learning. She makes it a very big part of her daily life, even in her seventies. How inspiring! 

1. Make A Secret List Of Dreams + Goals. 

When you're still figuring out your dreams, it's important to guard them from outside influence. There may be people in your life who genuinely love you and believe in you, but they might not connect with your dreams until they are a little more fleshed out. First step: Figure out your goals. Go to the park or the coffee shop alone. Make lists, start a journal, write down all your ideas and develop them to see where they lead! 2. Don't Let Others Choose Your Dreams. 

As I said above, you need to guard your dreams in their early stages. When you do share them with other people, don't expect a positive response 100% of the time. Some people need to see things to believe them. It's good to get advice from people you care about, but don't ever let someone else talk you out of trying something that you're dreaming of. It's your choice!

In my early twenties I had a lot of people who I cared about advise against business choices I was making. They had good intentions, hoping to see my choose a safer or more secure career. I am glad that I didn't take all of that advice, even though I listened. I let it challenge me and help me ensure I had my ducks in a row.

Similarly, outside influences can discourage hobbies if you let them. When you start a new hobby, chances are you won't be very good at first. That's a big part of learning. Don't let anyone discourage you from pursuing a hobby that you enjoy! 

3. Do Something You Never Thought You Could. 

There was a time when I thought I could never run a mile without stopping, now I enjoy running as a hobby. There was also a time when I thought I could never make money at photography without doing weddings, but this year we finished a book about photography inspiration! Sometimes, when you are just beginning something, it seems impossible. Sometimes you don't see doors that are going to open later on. Do that thing that you never thought you could do and just see what happens!4. Build A Support System. 

You need friends who share the same passions as you! If you don't have friends in your local circle who share your interests, look online. Through the years I have made so many real and meaningful friendships online. I have people who I can talk to about my weird hobbies and my business, people who I trust and respect. Whatever your hobby or interest, you can find friends who share the same passion. Just keep your eyes open and try joining online groups that fit your interest. You'll be able to provide each other with encouragement and information to keep learning! 

5. Give Yourself Permission To Start From Scratch. 

Maybe your dream is to do something you are already doing, but in a fresh way? I have felt this way many times though the years about my own photography. Sometimes the best way to learn is to start from scratch, forgetting everything you've learned in the past. It can be so refreshing to clear your mind and try to restart your dream with no rules, no clutter and no expectations. Try it!I've learned so much this past year. This year I plan to keep un-learning and re-learning about the things I am most passionate about. Learning and growing is a key to staying creative. What have you learned this past year? What do you plan to explore in the new year? xoxo. Elsie

Comments

[Heather]

I totally believe in lifelong learning too! Great post!

[Christina]

Thanks for that...It was beautifully written! I love knowing that someone out there thinks the way I do. Very inspirational.

[Megan D.]

Thank you so much for this post. As I was talking to my boyfriend the other night about my 4 Simple Goals for 2013. I said one of the things I cherish so much about life is the opportunity to learn on a daily basis. I was thinking of ways to approach my new set of goals and intentions and I will for sure read this book by Martha Stewart.

Thanks! Happy New Year ABM<3

[Jess]

Thank you so much for being such a powerful voice of reason and inspiration. This post may have been one of the most personally touching that I've read on ABM (not that I don't LOVE everything posted). But, this one gave me a lot to think about, especially when I'm constantly trying to hold onto dreams and not settle and not listen to those who don't believe. Thank you, Elsie.

XO

[Brittany @ DulceVie]

This year I have learned how to be healthier and to take good care of myself :)

[jenny]

Wonderful post!
It has encouraged and inspired me, just as reading your blog always does. :)
I have learned that making time for myself;carving out a portion of the day that I can get my hands into something and be creative, even if it is only 15 minutes on busy days, is vital. It gives me so much energy and joy. Even when I only get a few minutes, those few minutes are the fuel that I need.

[Essence]

Thank you for this!!!! This post is so inspiring. I hope you guys are having a wonderful day.

[Diamond]

I have learned to be patient in my career! IN this new year i plan on exploring more creative thing and thinking outside the box!

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[Alex-Rose]

This is such an inspiring post! xxx
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[Jerimi]

What a useful, well-written set of advice to begin the year with. Thank you!

[Monina]

I love this kind of post that you write, Elsie. They are so intimate and from your heart, that means a lot to me.
Thank you.

This year is gonna be a huge challenge. :)

[Taina of A {Kiss} of Color]

This is such a beautiful and meaningful post! I really enjoyed it!! Your words are incredibly inspiring. Definitely words that hit close to heart. Things we all need to hear every now and then. Thanks for sharing.

[Cathy]

Great post! I must pick up The Martha Rules book, thank you :)
This year I learned to stand up for myself more in my business. And ask more questions.

Cathy
Turquoise Flamingo
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[Emma]

Your advice is always so inspiring Elsie :)

[Sari]

This is inspiring, I can't even bring up more words. I love this post, thank you.

[Catherine Denton]

I love how you talk about lifestyle learning and un-learning old things to restart. I used to feel weird for being interested in so many things but I've come to understand I just love learning. This year I want to run a race which is a first for me, so I'm a little scared but think it'll be a good thing.
Catherine Denton

[Jaimie]

really great post.. I especially love #1. I would have never thought to keep my thoughts so secret, but now it makes such perfect sense.

[Kate]

I love the advice about keeping your goals to yourself for awhile. It really does help you develop them yourself without someone else pushing you in their own direction!

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[Cin]

Thanks Elsie! It's been really hard for me to go against everyone's expectations but it's good to know you went through that and now you are so satisfied, happy and succesful.

Happy 2013!!!

[daria]

very inspirational, for me at least.... a great great written, you said"I've learned so much this past year." yes , truly , no matter how , we all learn...